SEX ADDICTION- What is
it?
Sex addiction is an
individual’s intense desire to take part in sexual activity. Some of the activities that, when taken part in
obsessively or excessively, may indicate an obsession with sex include:
- watching pornography either on television or
online
- thinking about sex for long periods of the day to
the point in which it interferes with other priorities
- excessive collections of sexual
magazines
- risk taking sexual behavior such as promiscuity or
having sex in public places
- excessive masturbation
Sex addicts thinking becomes distorted and they will often
rationalize their behavior in some way. Sex addicts will even blame others for their problems or their sexual
actions rather than take the blame or accept that they were the doers of their actions. Most will deny that their
interaction with sexual activities are a problem thus denying that they are an
addict.
When an individual is addicted
to sex they will not bond with their partner. In fact, most sex addicts will have no real desire to form an
emotional bond with the individual or individuals that they are having sex with
Signs of Sex Addiction
The following signs in an
individual who is addicted to sex:
- compulsive
masturbation or stimulation
- extra-marital affairs
or multiple affairs in a non-married relationship
- multiple one nigh
stands
- excessive and
consistent use or pornography
- practicing
unprotected, unsafe sex
- cybersex either over
the phone or online
- prostitution or
purchasing the services of a prostitute
- dating excessively for
the ability to have multiple sexual partners
- voyeurism or watching
others have sex
- rape
- molestation
- sexually harassing
others
Consequences of Sex Addiction
- Financial
consequences. From poor productivity at work because an
individual has nothing but sex on his or her mind to money spent on sex through prostitution, cybersex,
phone sex or online sexual fantasy chat rooms, there is great stress financially that can come from sex
addiction.
- Health
consequences. Individuals who suffer from sex addiction
are likely to take part in promiscuous activity which can lead to unwanted pregnancy, STDs such as AIDs or
hepatitis, or rape
- Social
consequences. Sex addiction can lead to adverse social
interactions. Many sex addicts will not interact socially because they spend their time taking part in
cybersex while others may be over pushy or too sexual when in social interactions which can lead to social
upset.
- Emotional
consequences. Sex addiction is a disease and many sex
addicts, despite their desire to quit taking part in extreme sexual activity, are unable to on their own.
This leads to failure and emotional upset that can linger and cause depression or anxiety for the
addict.
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